Someone I know wrote in his blog about his near-car accident experience. And at the end of it he said, "By the grace of God I am still alive."
What is this? Is being alive on Earth better than being dead but standing next to God in heaven? If dying to the Christians meant going back to be with God, why don't you want to go? Why are you so glad for being alive? You know this could mean God doesn't want you by his side. He's just making sure you stay alive to go through all the sufferings humans have to face.
They always have to eat their words. I can tell you more but I'm too lazy to think.